When keepin’ it real goes right
moments from our Black Excellence group me chat. Got to hit me up to get added.
My problem with this is WHY would you ever let a guy treat you like that. On the FIRST fucking sign you’re a racial fetish you bite that dick off like a chocolate bar, just like he wanted it, & move the fuck on
Slow down there partner, I don’t date non-Black men so the “racial fetish” thing doesn’t really apply. These are Black men who think I’ll take it as a term of endearment, because most women do. Why would I “let” a man treat me like that? As if I can intercept a man’s thoughts before they make their way out of his mouth? I correct him or if it persists, I end it. No one is “letting” anyone do anything. And honestly it doesn’t bother me when ALL men do it. I’m complicated like that.
First, why would you not date anyone who isn’t your color? Secondly, that completely changes it. I don’t understand why a black man would do that, and I’ve never heard of any other couple of the same race talking to each other like that. That’s quite odd, really. Is that common for black men? I’m honestly curious.
And I just hate when anyone is seen as a racial fetish. I’ve been with a few black men and any time a black man that knows who I am sees me they feel the need to call me a snowbunny and laugh and mock me just cus they arn’t the ones that got my pussy. I’m not a whore; I was with these men. And any time I’m with a black male friend I get called it no matter where I go. And I see women constantly hit on by the color of their skin basically everywhere around here. I do live in the south Louisiana, though, which continues to be one of the most racist parts of the United States. But it’s so gross, and I don’t stand for it.
I have never dated outside my race because I am attracted to Black men. Apparently we have that in common. I would never fuck a man who sees me as a racial fetish so your reference to “biting his dick off like a chocolate bar”….um nah. It would never get that far. I clearly said I just “deaded” (ended things with) a man who called me chocolate. We never even kissed before. It got nowhere.
You don’t get it because you are not Black…in the Black community it’s quite common to refer to people’s complexion as “caramel” or “chocolate” in a positive way. Light-skinned girls call themselves “caramel” and women say they like “chocolate” men. It’s regular shit. Generally speaking, I do not like it, most people have no issue with it. Which is why a Black man would think it’s ok to say, until I establish that it is not. It in NO way compares to the use of “snow bunny”. Apples and oranges. That shit is used as a joke and y’all don’t realize it…